09
Mar
2015

‘Gone Girl’ Review

When courting, with honesty gone, it will be untrue. When marrying, with trust gone, it will be unreal, When married,…

08
Mar
2015

Stereotype Not

‘Tomboy: A Graphic Memoir’ by Liz Prince speaks of the author and her company’s confusion of the differences between her…

28
Feb
2015

Moral Control

Learnt from ‘The Two Faces Of January’: Make one moral mistake with ease and it becomes easier to make another…

28
Feb
2015

I Didn’t Mean…

From the movie ‘Tammy’… Tammy: Yeah, thanks a lot. Curtis: You’re welcome. Tammy: I didn’t mean ‘thank you.’ Curtis: And…

28
Feb
2015

Pink Pony

Those lazy to think conceive of an arbitrary pink pony (a.k.a. flying spaghetti monster) to have created it all. Poof!…

28
Feb
2015

Only Words For Now

Advice to a friend who sent a lengthy worded feedback email to an organisation: ‘You mustn’t mistaken politely worded replies…

28
Feb
2015

Fault-Finding

To a Dharma friend: ‘I used to be like you, to look at faults more than virtues of others. The…

27
Feb
2015

Eat The Pudding

The ultimate proof of the pudding is always in the eating, not in possibly endless doubt of its worth and…

27
Feb
2015

Food As Medicine

Advice for a relative whom I meet once a year, who had five heart-related surgeries, who still feels that not…

27
Feb
2015

Playing Dress-Up

Which makes more sense? Dressing up to possibly create an illusion of absolute well-being for an annual visit of relatives…

27
Feb
2015

Queue: Counterintuitive Lesson (1)

A short queue at a taxi stand does not guarantee a short wait. It might mean many gave up waiting…

27
Feb
2015

Be Debt-Free

Struck me that the custom of trying to resolve financial debts before the lunar new year is a way to…

25
Feb
2015

Action: Wandering Thought #226

Wandering Thought #226: Action There are three kinds of disgruntled people. The first grumbles to oneself or others, who are unlikely…

18
Feb
2015

Beauty: Wandering Thought #225

Wandering Thought #225: Beauty What or who truly beautiful is always moving, able to move you to also become more beautiful,…

18
Feb
2015

Improvement: Wandering Thought #224

Improvement: Wandering Thought #224 They say ‘If it isn’t broken, don’t fix it.’ However, if it, whatever it is, (including…

18
Feb
2015

Value: Wandering Thought #223

Wandering Thought #223: Value To know if what you are pursuing is truly valuable in the long run, ask yourself this…

18
Feb
2015

Freedom: Wandering Thought #222

Wandering Thought #222: Freedom In this world, paradoxically, nothing is really free – not even freedom itself. There is a price for…

18
Feb
2015

Openness: Wandering Thought #221

Wandering Thought #221: Openness The closed mind that assumes it already closed in on the truth, is the self-righteous and conceited…

18
Feb
2015

Independence: Wandering Thought #220

Wandering Thought #220: Independence While we must realise that we are interdependent in this world and require harmony to co-exist, we…

18
Feb
2015

Loyalty: Wandering Thought #219

Wandering Thought #219: Loyalty Where there are conflicts of interest, there has to be a line drawn between being loyal to…