Yup, Depeche Mode does slow and sentimental songs too. The above is the moving studio version of ‘Come Back’ from their new ‘Sounds of the Universe’ album (which some say is better than the album version). It is angsty yet calming at the same time, with the element of dark majesty that DM is renown [...]
Come Back To Me
By Shen Shi'an under Music |
2 Comments | Tags: Amitabha Buddha, attachment, aversion, Bodhisattvas, Buddha, Buddha-nature, compassion, Middle Way, Pure Land, Samsara
What If Someone Loves You Till He’ll Kill For You?
By Shen Shi'an under Movies/TV |
1 Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, delusion, generosity, loving-kindness, True Love, wisdom
In the movie ‘Suspect X’, a brilliant mathematician plans an elaborate scheme that involves murder to help his love interest get away with manslaughter. When one is driven so much by love that it involves killing another, is such love still healthy? Is such love ‘lovely’ or lovable? Would it be more touching or disturbing? Is [...]
Obituary : Death Verses
By Shen Shi'an under Odds & Ends |
2 Comments | Tags: attachment, aversion, Buddha-nature, death, freedom, grief, karma, love, Nirvana, Pure Land, rebirth
Jen: Your ‘imaginary funeral parlour notice’ [see below] is well written, seemingly depicting dying. Is it due to the way Buddhists view death, that there are no Buddhist obituaries in the papers? Shi’an: Actually, there are Buddhist obituaries in the papers locally (in Singapore) – but usually only the Chinese ones (because most Buddhists here [...]
Mask : Grim Reminders
By Shen Shi'an under Movies/TV, Photojournal |
Your Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, Buddha-nature, Dukkha, mindfulness
It struck me that the Hannya mask (left picture) I bought in Japan resembles Batman’s mask (right picture: DVD box of ‘The Dark Knight’). That said, the Hannya mask is essentially not a mask. It’s supposed to be the terribly anguished (more than horrifying) face of Hannya. Likewise, when Batman wears his cape and cowl, [...]
Love: What Is?
By Shen Shi'an under Relationships |
2 Comments | Tags: Anatta, Anicca, attachment, aversion, compassion, equanimity, loving-kindness, lust, paradox, rejoice, True Love
If you learn to love one properly, you will learn to love all equally. – Stonepeace [Notes: The notion of love in this article is love in general, as in loving-kindness (Metta: the wish for all to be well and happy), that excludes lust as a complicating worldly factor. The following are some of the [...]
Reel : To Real?
By zweiya under Movies/TV |
1 Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, compassion, delusion, equanimity, evil, loving-kindness, Mara, rejoice, self, wisdom
After picking up Buddhism, I found my threshold of being able to withstand seeing others in suffering to have reduced significantly. I can’t sit long in front of the television watching people scheming against each other, even though I know it’s just a show. Well, scriptwriters don’t get their stories out of thin air – many are [...]
Game : Loss As Victory
By zweiya under Odds & Ends |
Your Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, delusion, game, loss, Mara, victory
‘Go’ (围棋) is not an ordinary board game, but one that involves much wits and strategising. Unlike it’s counterpart Chinese chess (中国象棋), Go is a very minimal game with simple rules and only two different pieces (black and white). The objective is to conquer a larger portion of the board than the opponent, to capture [...]
Jealousy : Attachment & Aversion
By Shen Shi'an under Odds & Ends |
2 Comments | Tags: anger, attachment, aversion, delusion, demon, existential crisis, feelings, jealousy
A toddler nephew is undergoing a strange phase of growing up. Barely a month ago, his baby sister was born. Suddenly, his behaviour became a little incomprehensibly moody and anger-prone… even to himself! He seemed to experience a form of existential anguish that he couldn’t articulate with his limited vocabulary. When asked ‘Are you alright?’, [...]
Truth : A Dare
By Shen Shi'an under Odds & Ends |
Your Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, delusion, perception, truth
While chatting with someone on something serious, he suggested that I be as candid as possible with him. I laughed and said, ‘I’m always candid. I only conceal the truth from those who cannot take it.’ Upon further reflection later, I realised that I am seldom as candid as I wish I could be – [...]
Beings : Love All (2)
By yizhen under Relationships |
Your Comment | Tags: attachment, aversion, delusion, emptiness, enlightenment, love
Wi: How to love all beings equally? Yi: Before you can achieve that, you have to rid greed, hatred and ignorance. Wi: That would mean I have to be enlightened. Yi: Technically, yes. Wi: I don’t get it… Why all these talk of loving all if we, the unenlightened can’t do it anyway? Yi: The idea is to [...]
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