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A:<\/strong> Someone wants to meet me. A:<\/strong> Maybe the person wants to apologise or clarify something? A:<\/strong> Maybe the person has something to say that can’t be put in words online? A:<\/strong> Seems cold to reject meeting? A:<\/strong> Should there be absolutely no meeting then? A:<\/strong> It could be some family issues. A:<\/strong> The person later said that family member is no longer unhappy. Related Articles: A: Someone wants to meet me. B: For what purpose? A: The purpose is not clear. B: There is no…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[125,111],"class_list":["post-11326","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mix","tag-communication","tag-perception","wpcat-1-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11326","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11326"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11326\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11326"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11326"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11326"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nB:<\/strong> For what purpose?
\nA:<\/strong> The purpose is not clear.
\nB:<\/strong> There is no clear purpose to meet then?<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong> Apologise and clarify over what?
\nA:<\/strong>\u00a0On some past online communication?
\nB:<\/strong> Why not do it online if it was all along online?<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong>\u00a0Can the person communicate without using words when offline then?
\nA:<\/strong> Probably not.
\nB:<\/strong>\u00a0There is no clear purpose to meet then?<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong> It is better to avoid a meeting with no clear purpose.
\nA:<\/strong> Why?
\nB:<\/strong> If online communication did led to problems, offline communication might lead to more?<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong> If the context is clearly purposeful, as in a class, it would be better.
\nA:<\/strong> What if the subject is too personal for open discussion?
\nB:<\/strong>\u00a0You wouldn’t know since ‘the purpose is not clear’?<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong> Why not advise accordingly?
\nA:<\/strong>\u00a0Did so. Seems like there is a family member involved, who seems unhappy with further interaction.
\nB:<\/strong>\u00a0Family classes and counselling by neutral professionals can be recommended.<\/p>\n
\nB:<\/strong> So are things really okay now?
\nA:<\/strong>\u00a0Am unsure as there are recurring cycles of serious unhappiness.
\nB:<\/strong>\u00a0Out of compassion and wisdom, it is better not to meet then.<\/p>\n
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\nFamily Programs in Singapore
\nhttp:\/\/www.shanyou.org.sg\/activities_listing.php<\/a>
\nWords & Actions (Using Words to Resolve Words)
\nhttps:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2012\/03\/words-actions<\/a>
\nDiscussion in Class is Better
\nhttps:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2012\/03\/advantages-of-dharma-discussions-in-class<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"