{"id":1576,"date":"2009-03-17T01:45:25","date_gmt":"2009-03-16T17:45:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/?p=1576"},"modified":"2009-03-23T17:07:17","modified_gmt":"2009-03-23T09:07:17","slug":"look-no-looks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2009\/03\/look-no-looks\/","title":{"rendered":"Look! No Looks!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1580\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/03\/16.gif?resize=64%2C64\" alt=\"\" width=\"64\" height=\"64\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s totally normal that many personal blogs are generous with photographs of the bloggers themselves, since they are visual as much as a textual diaries of their lives. Moonpointer.com has been running for years, and you might wonder why there isn&#8217;t a single photo of us moonpointer bloggers here. Well, we&#8217;re pretty shy. I like to walk in the crowd unnoticed, to blend in, to better observe it. This is getting less and less possible though, as I give many public presentations. I always feel apologetic and grin sheepishly towards smiling strangers, who I don&#8217;t recognise, who had most likely seen me in a talk.<\/p>\n<p>Here are other reasons why you&#8217;ll never see a picture of me here. I seriously do think readers would be less likely to stay interested in reading this blog after knowing how I look like, because I&#8217;m neither good nor interesting-looking by conventional standards. (But that&#8217;s possibly an unconventional self-judgement? Whatever!) If you read less, it would mean I can&#8217;t share the Dharma with you as much. I won&#8217;t even venture to describe how I look &#8211; lest it becomes a distraction, lest it puts you off. Might curiosity about how I look keep readers reading instead? To those who have met me in person after reading my stuff, do I look like how I write? Do I fit your perceptions? Well, I honestly wouldn&#8217;t imagine so. But then again, is there a way I&#8217;m &#8216;supposed&#8217; to look?<\/p>\n<p>Once, when I was doing a movie-screening cum Dharma discussion at Awareness Place, I slipped out of the screening room for a break while the film was running. A participant approached me, missing part of the film. She asked if it was possible to snap a photo of me for a Hong Kong friend, who is a &#8216;fan&#8217; of <em><a href=\"http:\/\/TheDailyEnlightenment.com\" target=\"_blank\">TheDailyEnlightenment.com<\/a><\/em> articles that I write, who is very curious about how I look like. I politely obliged, posing with palms together and a slight grin&#8230; but not before saying this, &#8216;I hope I don&#8217;t disappoint your friend!&#8217; I might disappoint you in person, by my looks (or lack of), but I hope the Dharma I share online and offline has never let you down. I sincerely hope so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Article:<\/strong><br \/>\nOne Who Sees the Dharma Sees the Buddha<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/groups.yahoo.com\/group\/thedailyenlightenment-realisation\/message\/335\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/groups.yahoo.com\/group\/thedailyenlightenment-realisation\/message\/335<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s totally normal that many personal blogs are generous with photographs of the bloggers themselves, since they are visual as&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[337,111],"class_list":["post-1576","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mix","tag-judgement","tag-perception","wpcat-1-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1576","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1576"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1576\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}