{"id":23000,"date":"2019-04-20T21:28:48","date_gmt":"2019-04-20T13:28:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/?p=23000"},"modified":"2019-04-20T23:57:21","modified_gmt":"2019-04-20T15:57:21","slug":"2-on-anger-de-ira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2019\/04\/2-on-anger-de-ira\/","title":{"rendered":"#2: On Anger (De Ira)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-23001 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/live.jpg?resize=500%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/live.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/live.jpg?resize=96%2C58&amp;ssl=1 96w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/live.jpg?resize=300%2C180&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quotes that resonate, from &#8216;How to Keep Your Cool: An Ancient Guide to Anger Management&#8217; by Seneca, selected, translated and introduced by James Romm.<\/p>\n<p><strong>[6]<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>[A Stoic&#8217;s Daily Zen-like Self-Review]<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Seneca, to judge by his self-presentation in his writings, was a self-reflective and inward-looking man. He describes, in one of the passages translated below (3.36), his Zen-like nightly reviews of his own ethical choices &#8211; tranquil meditations conducted in the quiet of his bedroom&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;All our senses must be brought to a stable condition. They are by nature resilient, if the mind &#8211; which needs to be called to account every day &#8211; ceases to undermine them. Sextius [i.e. a Roman Stoic philosopher of the first century BC] used to do this, when at the day&#8217;s end, as he prepared himself for night-time rest, he would ask his own mind: &#8220;Which of your offenses have you cured today? Which fault have you blocked? In what area are you better?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Anger will abate and become more temperate if it knows that it must come before a judge every day. What could be finer than this method of shaking off all that the day has brought? What a sleep follows after this inspection of oneself; how peaceful, deep and free of care &#8211; after the mind has been either praised or scolded, and the observer and hidden justice of the self has searched one&#8217;s character!<\/p>\n<p>I make use of this resource; I plead a case every day in my own private court session. When the daylight has faded from view, and my wife, who knows well this custom of mine, keeps quiet, I become an inspector and reexamine the course of my day, my deeds and words; I hide nothing from myself, I omit nothing. There&#8217;s no reason my mistakes should give me cause to fear, as long as I say: &#8220;See that you don&#8217;t do that any more, but this time I forgive you.<\/p>\n<p>You spoke too combatively in that quarrel, so from now on don&#8217;t spend time with the ignorant; if they haven&#8217;t learnt by now, they don&#8217;t want to. You scolded that fellow with less restraint than you should have, and thus gave offense rather than helping him improve: next time consider not the truth of what you say but whether the one you say it to can endure the truth; good folk like to be chastised, but the worst sort find their preceptor very grating.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quotes that resonate, from &#8216;How to Keep Your Cool: An Ancient Guide to Anger Management&#8217; by Seneca, selected, translated and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-quotes","wpcat-44-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23000\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}