{"id":4652,"date":"2010-01-05T19:09:21","date_gmt":"2010-01-05T11:09:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/?p=4652"},"modified":"2010-01-05T19:10:54","modified_gmt":"2010-01-05T11:10:54","slug":"why-commit-to-the-uncommitted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2010\/01\/why-commit-to-the-uncommitted\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Commit to the Uncommitted?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4651\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/18.jpg?resize=216%2C288\" alt=\"\" width=\"216\" height=\"288\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/18.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/18.jpg?resize=72%2C96&amp;ssl=1 72w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/18.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 216px) 100vw, 216px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The PostSecret postcard from<br \/>\n\u2018PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death and God\u2019 reads:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">&#8216;I wanted him so badly that I slept with him,<br \/>\nknowing he was going home to you.<br \/>\nNow that I know he would cheat,<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t want him anymore.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m sorry.&#8217;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Oh the irony yet truthfulness of it all!<br \/>\nI never really understood why people have sexual affairs<br \/>\nbecause if the married intend to fail in their commitments,<br \/>\nwhy commit in the first place?<\/p>\n<p>And if their commitments were a mistake,<br \/>\nwhy not apologise and move on first,<br \/>\ninstead of hanging on, breaking promises and lying?<br \/>\nAnd for the third party&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>How can anyone commit to someone<br \/>\nwho fails in his commitment to someone else?<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Stonepeace<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><!--more-->[ad#postsecret1]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The PostSecret postcard from \u2018PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death and God\u2019 reads: &#8216;I wanted him so badly that I slept&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[176,79],"tags":[469,45],"class_list":["post-4652","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-relationships","tag-commitment","tag-stonepeace","wpcat-176-id","wpcat-79-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4652","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4652"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4652\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4652"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4652"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4652"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}