{"id":6061,"date":"2010-05-10T14:13:44","date_gmt":"2010-05-10T06:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/?p=6061"},"modified":"2010-05-10T14:13:44","modified_gmt":"2010-05-10T06:13:44","slug":"bad-faith-for-good-feedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2010\/05\/bad-faith-for-good-feedback\/","title":{"rendered":"Bad Faith for Good Feedback?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/116.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-6062\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/116.jpg?resize=116%2C111\" alt=\"\" width=\"116\" height=\"111\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/116.jpg?w=116&amp;ssl=1 116w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/116.jpg?resize=96%2C92&amp;ssl=1 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 116px) 100vw, 116px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s intriguing that some ask for feedback openly but deal with it badly. How do you know someone is insincere in conveying your thoughts, which you took effort to formulate and relay? When they say  they\u2019ll ask the phantom \u2018others\u2019 what they think about your ideas, and never ever get back, thus  effectively pushing the responsibility of looking into your contribution to nobody in  particular and diffusing their own personal responsibility, while hoping you will eventually forget about the whole issue. <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">This is the worst when it comes to Dharma matters, which have wider implications.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>This is ridiculous especially  when that person is the key person in charge, trying to look like a team player,  when it is this person who decides not to seriously look into your feedback for improvement. It\u2019s actually better that they ignore feedback than to  pretend to look into them, thus raising expectations and giving rise to  disappointment. There is a thin line between being diplomatic and being insincere. It&#8217;s my bad to harbour unrealistic expectations, but arguably, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">to disregard feedback is less unethical than to lie about looking into it<\/span>. I&#8217;m keeping an open mind about a recent case. Maybe there will be serious but late feedback on my serious feedback. Better late than never.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s intriguing that some ask for feedback openly but deal with it badly. How do you know someone is insincere&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[254,158],"class_list":["post-6061","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-mix","tag-responsibility","tag-sincerity","wpcat-1-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6061"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6061\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}