{"id":7532,"date":"2010-10-04T19:18:34","date_gmt":"2010-10-04T11:18:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/?p=7532"},"modified":"2010-10-05T03:17:58","modified_gmt":"2010-10-04T19:17:58","slug":"selfishness-vs-selflessness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/2010\/10\/selfishness-vs-selflessness\/","title":{"rendered":"Selfishness Vs Selflessness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-7533\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/12.jpg?resize=168%2C108\" alt=\"\" width=\"168\" height=\"108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/12.jpg?w=280&amp;ssl=1 280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/12.jpg?resize=96%2C62&amp;ssl=1 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 168px) 100vw, 168px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I never really watched &#8216;Survivor&#8217;  until I came across the recent episodes on the tube. I think I finally  found out what&#8217;s so intriguing about the series. <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The rules of the game  are paradoxical &#8211; one is expected to be a team-player for group  challenges &#8211; but not really for the team&#8217;s benefit, because ultimately,  there is only one individual winner.<\/span> There is both selflessness and  selfishness expected.<\/p>\n<p>This contradicting tension which the players grapple with is  interesting. Even a good team-player or leader who helps an individual&#8217;s  team survival can be deemed dangerous due to his or her skills and  popularity! The most helpful team player is thus also the most  threatening, who is thus possibly voted out instead of retained.  Bizarre, isn&#8217;t it? <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The Bodhisattva path is based on opposite  motivations. It is survival and even sacrifice of oneself to better help  the survival; not elimination, of others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The paradox comes full circle at the end with a sense of retribution. From Wikipedia, &#8216;The last  two or three survivors face a jury historically comprising of at least  the last seven players voted off. That jury interrogates the final few,  and then votes for the winner of the title of Sole Survivor and a  million dollar prize.&#8217; As such, in the end, <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">the game doesn&#8217;t exactly  promote selfishness or selflessness<\/span> &#8211; but a &#8216;reasonable&#8217; mix of the duo? Is this possible beyond the game, such that it leads to True Happiness? I don&#8217;t think so &#8211; which is why enlightenment requires realisation of selflessness in full.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I never really watched &#8216;Survivor&#8217; until I came across the recent episodes on the tube. I think I finally found&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[223,146,160,136,488,258],"class_list":["post-7532","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-movies","tag-bodhisattva","tag-paradox","tag-sacrifice","tag-selfishness","tag-selflessness","tag-true-happiness","wpcat-26-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7532","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7532"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7532\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7532"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7532"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/moonpointer.com\/new\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7532"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}