Category: Mix

07
Mar
2012

Words & Actions

If one had created a misunderstanding with inappropriate words, one should just clarify with appropriate words. (Sometimes, no other action…

07
Mar
2012

Mind Over Body

From ‘The Straits Times’, ‘In TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine), the heart is believed to control the mind and hence all…

07
Mar
2012

The Journalist Paradox

A good journalist is supposed to just record and report an event, and not be part of the action?  But…

07
Mar
2012

Why Let Faults Win?

Heard of a Dharma student thinking of giving up attending one of his teachers’ classes due to embarrassment over some…

07
Mar
2012

Can You Hug The Sky?

多年以前有一位朋友到楚布寺去覲見剛剛坐床的大寶法王。 不知道是怎樣的因緣,他突然問了小法王一句: “我可以抱你嗎?” 只有七歲的小法王靜靜地回答:“你可以抱住天空嗎?” ~摘自噶瑪噶舉之家 我們就是為了幻化的事物忙一輩子,以為可以抓住什麼, 但就是留不住,終其空空忙碌一生。 A summary of the above in English: Someone visited the then seven year…

07
Mar
2012

The Hope Paradox

I notice that the poor in many countries tend to have more kids. Perhaps it is due to lack of…

01
Mar
2012

Make Aspirations & Take Action

Saw an online chat between Buddhist friends about the possibility of doing a Dharma project. One said, to ‘make aspirations’….

29
Feb
2012

Getting In Sync

As am currently teaching the Dharma 5 evenings a week, and 6 for this one, I end up training myself…

29
Feb
2012

Pros & Cons

Question: What do you do if you don’t know whether to give up or hang on to something? Answer: How…

29
Feb
2012

Watch Your Words

I came across a someone who is supposed to teach the Dharma via video clips online. I say ‘supposed’ because…

22
Feb
2012

The Cloudian Scowl or Smile

Like a cloud that shapeshifts, the object, issue or person we perceive changes too, along with our angle of perception,…

22
Feb
2012

How to Overcome Anger?

Q: How to overcome anger? A:  Look deeply for the reason why you are angry. If the reason is external,…

22
Feb
2012

The Other End Of Freudian Slips

I don’t know if there is already a term for the receiving end of Freudian slips, but I have been…

22
Feb
2012

Are You Like Your Moniker?

S: It’s funny when some claim that you don’t resemble your pseudonym, because the very point of using pseudonyms is…

22
Feb
2012

Repentance & Respect

If one is constantly apologetic, one has never been truly apologetic. If one keeps saying sorry, one is simply not…

22
Feb
2012

How Much More Tears?

You cry when you are born. Because returning painfully is suffering. How much more tears? You cry when you are…

22
Feb
2012

Unequal Grace

If you are more gracious to the more wealthy and powerful, even if you are not also wealthy and powerful,…

15
Feb
2012

Retreat Equipment… Check!

While attending a Pure Land retreat, it struck me that there is a wide variety of differences in what participants…

15
Feb
2012

Fame & Status As Spiritual Impediments?

It is sad, but true, that some teachers (monastics or laity), having gathered some fame and status, become less active…

15
Feb
2012

Email Reply Needed?

H: Overheard – ‘Arlow! Have you read my email ? Can you read and reply me?’ Why not just ask…