Tag: equanimity

04
Aug
2020

Be Ever More Loving

  If equal affection cannot be,Let the more loving one be me. – W.H. Auden

13
May
2019

Death Reflection #4

From: ‘How To Die: An Ancient Guide to the End of Life’ by Seneca, edited, translated, and introduced by James…

25
Jul
2018

Minds: Dharmagram #167

  Minds: Dharmagram #167 Strengthen the Four Immeasurable Minds of loving-kindness, compassion, rejoice and equanimity to bridge across to all…

13
Jun
2018

Twister: Dharmagram #130

Twister: Dharmagram #130 See another see-saw I saw by the seashore. Tongue-twister. As it doesn’t go very high, it doesn’t…

10
Mar
2017

Clean Cut

The Buddha-to-be cutting off his princely hair to express renouncing of worldly attachments for the sake of seeking the path…

24
Jan
2017

Slow Idiots Vs Fast Maniacs

Interestingly, other drivers might think the same of you? Hmmm… If you always expect the world to centre around your…

24
Nov
2015

Discrimination: Wandering Thought #242

Discrimination: Wandering Thought #242 It only takes a single person of another race to help a racist person, for the…

09
Apr
2015

Cold Or Cool?

‘I Never Liked You’ by Chester Brown speaks of the uncertainty of feelings when growing up, which might even lead…

28
Nov
2014

Calmness: Wandering Thought #161

Wandering Thought #161: Calmness Real calmness from equanimity is not indifference to whatever is going on, including others’ suffering. It is…

04
Aug
2014

Partiality: Wandering Thought #43

Wandering Thought #43: Partiality Any one form of partial and worldly love is not superior to any other form of…

08
Mar
2014

Stonepeace Haiku

In the heat and cold, at the high or low, the stone… at peace.

31
Dec
2013

Mosaic: Super Short Story #278

Super Short Story #278: Mosaic When he sees mosaic designs, he doesn’t just see the beauty, but the grime to…

21
Apr
2013

Past Parents

I asked him why he doesn’t seem very concerned for the spiritual well-being of his parents. He replied that since…

27
Feb
2013

Bad Day: Super Short Story (189)

Super Short Story (189): Bad Day He encouraged his bipolar friend: ‘There are good and bad days for everyone unenlightened….

21
Nov
2012

Super Short Story (120): Distance

Super Short Story (120): Distance He appreciated that the cleaner he frequently encounters in the restaurant never saw himself to…

21
Jun
2012

Few True Friends?

A friend lists ‘the few true friends’ he has so far in his Facebook status. Am not listed, which is…

04
Jun
2012

Some River Reflections

From the 1957 movie ‘The River’directed by Jean Renoir – Same But Different Nan: Why can’t you be good like…

22
Feb
2012

Unequal Grace

If you are more gracious to the more wealthy and powerful, even if you are not also wealthy and powerful,…

21
Dec
2011

Elmo Vs Emo

Struck me that Elmo is the opposite of Emo! Emo: One who has negative emotions often. Elmo: One who has…

27
Oct
2011

True Equanimity

Question: I am not very clear about equanimity as the last of the Four Immeasurable Minds. Does it mean being…