Category: Mix

24
Nov
2010

Beware of Brainwashing

Question: I think I will still attend my friend’s gathering [at what is considered a cult by orthodox Buddhism] but…

24
Nov
2010

Self & Other-Reliance

Question: I was having a practical test and there was a candidate who did very badly. Immediately, I chanted silently,…

24
Nov
2010

More Expressive Of What?

Tips are abound these days… on how to make your eyes look ‘more expressive’ using various make-up techniques. But… ‘more…

24
Nov
2010

The Precious Disagreeable

The best Dharma lessons don’t always sound the most pleasing to one’s ears. For what you already know you don’t…

22
Nov
2010

Plato’s ‘Pure Land’

Adorning glossy magazine covers are photographs of faces mostly photoshopped to ‘perfection’. Nothing new really, for our ancestors too conceal…

22
Nov
2010

A Perfect Sickness Or Virtue?

Maybe we are imperfect, which is why we love the imperfect. [1] Is this a sickness or a virtue? Maybe…

22
Nov
2010

The Magical Ulcer

The magical ulcer in my mouth seems to come from nowhere, to grow and grow. It doesn’t seem to go,…

22
Nov
2010

Remember That Task?

A Tit for a Tat (181) Tit: Remember that to-do? Tat: Yes? Tit: Can you do it now? Tat: Why…

22
Nov
2010

Borrowing The Stolen

A Tit for a Tat (180) Tit: I think it’s okay to see pirated movies – if I don’t plan…

22
Nov
2010

Getting Used To The Inevitable

A Tit for a Tat (179) Tit: When will it get better?  Tat: When you get used to it! Tit:…

22
Nov
2010

Who Blesses The Blessed One?

The Buddha is also called ‘The Blessed One’. But who blesses the Blessed One, who blesses us with the Dharma?…

15
Nov
2010

The Seven Kinds Of Refuge

As generally defined, seven kinds of refuge. Which one are you? Generally, any form of refuge missing Dharma is spiritually…

15
Nov
2010

A Day At A Time?

A Tit for a Tat (178) Tit: Can we eat at that restaurant every day? Tat: If we have enough…

15
Nov
2010

What’s On Your Mind?

A Facebook dialogue: Shian: Struck me that the Facebook live feed question is a good one – ‘What’s on your…

15
Nov
2010

Are Labels Useless?

Q: It doesn’t matter whether one calls oneself a Buddhist when one is practising the Buddha’s way. Often, we are…

15
Nov
2010

Such (In)flexibility!

A Tit for a Tat (177) Tit: The deliveryman just called. He wants to come now! Tat: Wow, this is…

15
Nov
2010

No Need to Compare?

A Tit for a Tat (176) Tit: This bun tastes dry – not like the ones before! Tat: Don’t compare…

15
Nov
2010

Sent to Colleagues

Email subject header: Diabetes Alert? Hi Everyone, Recently, I noticed that there are black ants on the rim of the…

15
Nov
2010

Taiji Lesson #5

Then again, yet another random lesson from Taiji class: The mirror for checking your moves is half your teacher, but…

15
Nov
2010

How to Enjoy Sleeping?

A Tit for a Tat (175) Tit: I enjoy sleeping. Tat: But ‘you’ are not there when you’re asleep! You’re…