Tag: death

27
Sep
2011

Phantom Love & Loss

Some lament of not finding a dream partner, of not getting the one one wants now. Some lament of losing…

20
Sep
2011

What Mission?

A friend sent by the Chinese text below, written by a Dharma teacher, for comments. My comments are in English,…

12
Sep
2011

Synopsis of Life?

The above is Art Spiegelman’s ‘Synopsis’ of the human condition. This mortal life is as if a definite walk towards…

31
Aug
2011

Good Idea?

Lost a good idea within a finger snap Arghhh! Imagine if this happens on the deathbed. Arghhh! Not a good…

31
Aug
2011

Better Braced?

If a pet has died, will you get a new pet? Will you relive the possible pain of departure again?…

19
Jul
2011

Every Day With Birdie?

There is this part in ‘Tuesdays with Morrie’ that mentions Buddhism. Morrie: Everybody knows they’re going to die, but nobody…

29
Jun
2011

Meaning Of Life

Since life has no (fixed) meaning, what the meaning of life is, is to give life a (meaningful) meaning. Since life…

28
May
2011

Every Moment Matters

A hospice flyer read, ‘To them, every moment matters.’ But wait… we are all the dying. The important question is……

24
May
2011

A Grave Issue

Question: We went to exhume of one of our long-time ancestors’ graves for cremation and discovered some ornaments with the…

21
Apr
2011

Dream of Deathwish

A Tit for a Tat (297) Tit: Sometimes I wish I’m pronounced to have a terminal illness. Tat: Gosh! Why?…

06
Apr
2011

Dharma Snippets

Learnt and expanded from a Dharma talk: 放下不是放弃。 Right ‘letting go’ is not ‘giving up’; it is acceptance of things…

09
Mar
2011

No Deterrence

Not catnip, not eucalyptus, not anything I know, that shoos him away. Nothing seemed to deter the cockroach. Like death,…

01
Mar
2011

He Is Like Death

There is a stranger in the house. There is an uninvited guest in the house. There is a phantom cockroach…

01
Mar
2011

The Everyday Song On The Last Day

Almost everyday I hear the same busker singing the same few lovelorn love songs in the same few ways. I…

01
Mar
2011

The Cockroach of Death

A Tit for a Tat (226) Tit: Is it safer and more realistic to assume there is a cockroach lurking…

01
Mar
2011

Get To Lose

The endlessly greedy are like one who gathers fallen coins into pockets with holes, walking in circles, getting richer yet…

01
Mar
2011

Short & Unpredictable Life

A reply to a Pure Land course participant, who decided to attend the next round due to a relative’s passing…

14
Feb
2011

Skinny Later

A Tit for a Tat (218) Tit: He used to be a muscular weight-lifter. Now he’s so fat. Tat: Well,…

17
Jan
2011

Do the Good Die Young?

Question: Is it true that ‘good people die young’ and that “good deeds do not beget got endings’? Answer: Not…

17
Jan
2011

Why Auld Lang Syne?

A live band played Auld Lang Syne at his ‘Buddhist’ funeral. Way too sentimental a parting gift. Is it supposed to…