20
Dec
2010

Demonisation By Generalisation

A Tit for a Tat (186) Tit: To prevent unfair demonisation by generalisation, I try to use ‘some’ instead of…

20
Dec
2010

Car Number

A Tit for a Tat (185) Tit: Look at that amazing car number! Tat: Wow! So… what can it do?…

20
Dec
2010

Like & Dislike

A Tit for a Tat (184) Tit: One fried dumpling left. You want it? Tat: Since you like it, you can have…

20
Dec
2010

Sticks & Stones

A Tit for a Tat (183) Tit: What happens if I fall off this slope? Tat: The many trees will…

14
Dec
2010

Troubling-ness

Supposed to know something – but forgot what? Do you let it trouble you, or let it slide? Truth is,…

14
Dec
2010

Mindfulness of This & That

There is much talk these days, of mindfulness of many things, connected to life… From relationships, to work, to finances……

14
Dec
2010

Communication

Open-hearted communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. Without the Buddha’s communication of the Dharma to the Sangha, of the…

14
Dec
2010

Come & Go

In ‘Aftershock’, a foster mother-to-be asks to ensure that the girl she wants to adopt really has no surviving family….

14
Dec
2010

Healthy Monastic & Lay Interdependence

From Itivuttaka 4.8:  This was said by the Blessed One, said by the Arahant, so I have heard: “Monks, brahmans…

14
Dec
2010

A Chat on Criticism

S: Stonepeace said, ‘One who says many to be evil might be the one most evil.’ (常说人人不好的人可能是最不好的人.) Is the monkey…

13
Dec
2010

The Arbitrary Toilets

There are two unlabeled toilet cubicles in the office. Most males use one, that became the less clean one. It’s…

13
Dec
2010

Significance of a Butterfly

A friend admiring butterflies posts this on Facebook, ‘What is the significance of a butterfly?’ I could say ‘It has…

13
Dec
2010

Deepen & Broaden Not

There is already a dirt track formed along the shortcut (on the slope). Why not use it? Because it will…

13
Dec
2010

Who Is Extreme?

Do you mind not calling me extreme… because I don’t support the cutting of any animal’s throat? because I don’t…

13
Dec
2010

Might Not Return

She spoke of her fears of how he might not return. I consoled her that we all face the same…

13
Dec
2010

Before It’s Too Late

I encountered someone who seem perfectly normal, who turned out to be suicidal. I had a chat with him, to…

13
Dec
2010

Ask the Right Ones

A mistake that many make is to ask non-specialists questions that require specialised knowledge. E.g. Why ask a Theravada teacher…

13
Dec
2010

Question on Mindfulness

The waitress politely asked if I would like a drink. I shook my head in reply. A few minutes later……

13
Dec
2010

Harder Path

W: Always choose the harder path, as they say, the harder path is always the right path… But what if…

07
Dec
2010

Kinder Milk Offering

An extended dialogue: S: Is it possible to use soy milk as one of the auspicious offering items instead of…