Wandering Thought #139: Transformation
If you are habitually angry at another who is habitually angry at you (for no sound reason you can find), you can end the anger of both by first ending yours. When you no longer get angry at that person (for these good reasons), the pointlessness of being angry at you will be gradually realised by that person, and the anger at you will end too. This is how others can be transformed by you. Thus is the world transformed by first transforming yourself.