Better than Romantic

A Tit for a Tat (50)

Tit: Wedding day is a girl’s most happy and beautiful day…
Tat:
Why can’t all girls feel happy and beautiful every day?
Tit:
So unromantic!
Tat:
So much more fantastic!

Every day is a good day.
[Every moment is a good moment.]

– Master Baizang

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8 thoughts on “Better than Romantic

  1. Happiest day or not on whatever occasions, it’s just “delusion”, things change, nothing is permanent,
    so do the world climate.

    It’s good to practise mindfulness on our emotions whether it’s happy or sad, just do some “reflections” on our emotions every now and then, it helps to lead to a more “peaceful” life.

  2. Happiness is meant here as a peaceful happiness, that is more sustainable than highs that come with lows.Yup, mindfulness is important to keep this peace.

    😀

  3. Perhaps it could be the start of happy and beautiful days ahead if both combine their efforts to bring more peace & loving kindness to the world

  4. Life is filled with discrete changes. For example from non-existent to being born, from unemployed to being employed, from hungry to being well fed. In this case, it is from being non-married to being married. The discrete change marks a new beginning, in which new seeds come into play and new conditions would ripen. Thus the new beginning, the day of this discrete change, is specially celebrated with rejoice, sharing the joy with all our friends and relatives. Thus the wedding day is a very special day. We put in a lot of effort and resources to make the wedding day a girl’s most happy and beautiful day because it is the most special day for her.

    Why can’t every day be a happy day for the girl? Yes every day can be a happy day. However to celebrate the wedding day is to respect the special significance to the girl’s life, and to commit that one regards this new discrete change with importance. We do what we can to make the day special — not overstretching ourselves. After all it is a beginning, so let us make it a sustainable beginning. 🙂

  5. Life is filled with changes, every events in our life is a new beginning, it’s very meaningful and it clear my doubts and really inspiring comments.

    😎

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